Re: Ok, but
Just because you would say the same about a white or green child being given the same name does not mean that you can say it about a black child being given the name. No, it doesn't. Because a white or a green child would not be given the name as part of their culture. And a white or green child would not have created that culture in an environment of historical oppression of white people or green people and in a milieu of resistance to that oppression.I'm going to be blunt.On a name opinions board I get to have an opinion on a name (ANY name) and so does everyone else, regardless of their skin colour.No, you don't, when it comes to African-American names.My skin colour, my culture, my country of origin or my country of resident are NOT qualifiers of whether I can or cannot have an opinion on a name. When it comes to African-American names, yes, they are.I was just blunt and I said it because obviously I have to be blunt. You are reeking of white privilege right now. And it is quite quite true that because you are an Australian, it's far more likely that you will have a lot less understanding of this issue than an American will, though God knows there a lot of Americans who could do with a lot more understanding.

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Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 4:22 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Anneza  ·  7/17/2017, 12:36 PM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  peonini  ·  7/17/2017, 12:10 PM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  RDNZL  ·  7/17/2017, 2:14 PM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Jasmine  ·  7/16/2017, 6:15 PM
Rumi  ·  Solveig  ·  7/16/2017, 12:22 PM
We did  ·  Rachel Shaina  ·  7/16/2017, 11:03 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  basilisk  ·  7/16/2017, 10:29 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 10:36 AM
The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 8:34 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Petra  ·  7/17/2017, 6:10 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 9:26 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 6:24 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/16/2017, 9:14 AM
ditto (m)  ·  RoxStar  ·  7/16/2017, 12:54 PM
Re: ditto (m)  ·  Fionnghuala  ·  7/16/2017, 9:58 PM
what's disrespectful ...  ·  RoxStar  ·  7/17/2017, 8:05 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Danno  ·  7/16/2017, 10:59 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 9:23 AM
I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 3:05 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:32 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 9:06 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 9:55 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 10:48 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 10:53 PM
But...  ·  peonini  ·  7/17/2017, 12:15 PM
Re: But...  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 12:47 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  mirfak  ·  7/16/2017, 3:06 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 3:28 PM
Also...  ·  peonini  ·  7/17/2017, 12:23 PM
Re: Also...  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 12:51 PM
Re: Also...  ·  Opal Petunia  ·  7/17/2017, 4:42 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/16/2017, 8:32 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 4:51 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/17/2017, 8:03 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:07 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 7:20 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 7:50 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 2:38 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 10:56 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 11:39 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 11:53 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable ETA  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 11:59 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 12:28 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/17/2017, 8:08 AM
I agree (m)  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/16/2017, 11:43 PM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 5:03 AM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/17/2017, 2:43 PM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 4:28 PM
Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 3:43 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 11:11 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 5:53 AM
Ok, but  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/17/2017, 8:09 PM
Re: Ok, but  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:33 PM
So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 2:49 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 3:46 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 3:55 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 3:15 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:26 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 9:18 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 10:01 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 4:13 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 4:31 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 6:22 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:28 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Ismene  ·  7/18/2017, 6:14 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 6:55 PM
We'll have to agree to disagree nt  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/17/2017, 11:49 PM
Re: Ok, but  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 8:32 PM
Re: Ok, but  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:39 PM
Re: Ok, but ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 8:46 PM
Re: Ok, but ETA  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:56 PM
Re: Ok, but ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 9:16 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 4:24 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 4:45 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 11:26 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 5:53 AM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Ismene  ·  7/18/2017, 9:19 AM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Katie  ·  7/18/2017, 8:19 AM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 8:36 AM
Yeah. I get it now.  ·  Katie  ·  7/18/2017, 2:42 PM
Guys... :)  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 3:33 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:35 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 3:59 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  Katie  ·  7/18/2017, 10:57 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:40 PM
I PM'd you (nt)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 5:09 PM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  Pie  ·  7/17/2017, 9:56 AM
Wow  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 8:51 PM
Re: Wow  ·  mirfak  ·  7/16/2017, 10:42 PM
Should be under Mirfak's comment. Big apology I was just in shock.  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:06 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  LillieMae87  ·  7/16/2017, 7:45 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Tuesday  ·  7/17/2017, 6:50 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  mirfak  ·  7/16/2017, 4:22 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 10:41 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/16/2017, 10:09 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Martha  ·  7/16/2017, 9:41 AM
THIS THIS THIS  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:26 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:21 AM
Naming, not among  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:22 AM
This (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 8:39 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Wordsmith  ·  7/16/2017, 7:48 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Piccadilly  ·  7/16/2017, 7:36 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  RoxStar  ·  7/16/2017, 6:47 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 7:01 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  LillieMae87  ·  7/16/2017, 6:23 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  RDNZL  ·  7/16/2017, 9:46 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Ismene  ·  7/16/2017, 9:10 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 7:04 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Gracie  ·  7/16/2017, 6:16 AM
Words fail me! n/t  ·  Anneza  ·  7/16/2017, 5:57 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Ninor  ·  7/16/2017, 4:27 AM