Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable
Wow, I seriously cannot believe all the defensive white people replying to this.The right to deride the name "Sir" in a public forum should not be anyone's hill to die on. This should not be a subject of debate. It is not and should not be white people's prerogative to contemplate how they (white people) should define black naming culture and, hey, what really is black (naming) culture, anyway? People are bending over backwards to justify why their dislike of "Sir" is not racist and are twisting things so thoroughly that they're now convinced the other side is being unreasonable: "so you're saying NO ONE is allowed to have an opinion of ANY name?" / "who even decides what name is from what culture anyway?" / "it's not about race because I would still think it's stupid if a white person used it!" / etc. Do you even hear yourselves? This is ludicrous. This is white fragility to the extreme.
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Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 4:22 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Anneza  ·  7/17/2017, 12:36 PM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  peonini  ·  7/17/2017, 12:10 PM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  RDNZL  ·  7/17/2017, 2:14 PM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Jasmine  ·  7/16/2017, 6:15 PM
Rumi  ·  Solveig  ·  7/16/2017, 12:22 PM
We did  ·  Rachel Shaina  ·  7/16/2017, 11:03 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  basilisk  ·  7/16/2017, 10:29 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 10:36 AM
The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 8:34 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Petra  ·  7/17/2017, 6:10 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 9:26 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 6:24 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/16/2017, 9:14 AM
ditto (m)  ·  RoxStar  ·  7/16/2017, 12:54 PM
Re: ditto (m)  ·  Fionnghuala  ·  7/16/2017, 9:58 PM
what's disrespectful ...  ·  RoxStar  ·  7/17/2017, 8:05 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Danno  ·  7/16/2017, 10:59 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 9:23 AM
I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 3:05 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:32 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 9:06 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 9:55 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 10:48 PM
Re: I absolutely agree with you.  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 10:53 PM
But...  ·  peonini  ·  7/17/2017, 12:15 PM
Re: But...  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 12:47 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  mirfak  ·  7/16/2017, 3:06 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 3:28 PM
Also...  ·  peonini  ·  7/17/2017, 12:23 PM
Re: Also...  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 12:51 PM
Re: Also...  ·  Opal Petunia  ·  7/17/2017, 4:42 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/16/2017, 8:32 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 4:51 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/17/2017, 8:03 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:07 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 7:20 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 7:50 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 2:38 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 10:56 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 11:39 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 11:53 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable ETA  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 11:59 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 12:28 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/17/2017, 8:08 AM
I agree (m)  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/16/2017, 11:43 PM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 5:03 AM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/17/2017, 2:43 PM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 4:28 PM
Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 3:43 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 11:11 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 5:53 AM
Ok, but  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/17/2017, 8:09 PM
Re: Ok, but  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:33 PM
So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 2:49 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 3:46 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 3:55 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 3:15 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:26 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 9:18 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 10:01 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 4:13 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 4:31 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/18/2017, 6:22 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:28 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  Ismene  ·  7/18/2017, 6:14 PM
Re: So if I were to follow your above statements  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 6:55 PM
We'll have to agree to disagree nt  ·  aussiechic04  ·  7/17/2017, 11:49 PM
Re: Ok, but  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 8:32 PM
Re: Ok, but  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:39 PM
Re: Ok, but ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 8:46 PM
Re: Ok, but ETA  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 8:56 PM
Re: Ok, but ETA  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 9:16 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 4:24 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/17/2017, 4:45 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Ismene  ·  7/17/2017, 11:26 PM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 5:53 AM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Ismene  ·  7/18/2017, 9:19 AM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  Katie  ·  7/18/2017, 8:19 AM
Re: Never mind (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 8:36 AM
Yeah. I get it now.  ·  Katie  ·  7/18/2017, 2:42 PM
Guys... :)  ·  Aine  ·  7/18/2017, 3:33 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:35 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  queenv  ·  7/18/2017, 3:59 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  Katie  ·  7/18/2017, 10:57 PM
Re: Guys... :)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/18/2017, 5:40 PM
I PM'd you (nt)  ·  SlytherClaw  ·  7/17/2017, 5:09 PM
Re: I agree (m)  ·  Pie  ·  7/17/2017, 9:56 AM
Wow  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 8:51 PM
Re: Wow  ·  mirfak  ·  7/16/2017, 10:42 PM
Should be under Mirfak's comment. Big apology I was just in shock.  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:06 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  LillieMae87  ·  7/16/2017, 7:45 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Tuesday  ·  7/17/2017, 6:50 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  mirfak  ·  7/16/2017, 4:22 PM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 10:41 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Katie  ·  7/16/2017, 10:09 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  Martha  ·  7/16/2017, 9:41 AM
THIS THIS THIS  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:26 AM
Re: The judgment makes me uncomfortable  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:21 AM
Naming, not among  ·  BlackOpinion  ·  7/16/2017, 9:22 AM
This (m)  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 8:39 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Wordsmith  ·  7/16/2017, 7:48 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Piccadilly  ·  7/16/2017, 7:36 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  RoxStar  ·  7/16/2017, 6:47 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Perrine  ·  7/16/2017, 7:01 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  LillieMae87  ·  7/16/2017, 6:23 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  RDNZL  ·  7/16/2017, 9:46 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Ismene  ·  7/16/2017, 9:10 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  queenv  ·  7/16/2017, 7:04 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Gracie  ·  7/16/2017, 6:16 AM
Words fail me! n/t  ·  Anneza  ·  7/16/2017, 5:57 AM
Re: Have we talked about what Beyoncé named her twins yet?  ·  Ninor  ·  7/16/2017, 4:27 AM