Both Theodore and Abraham are nice names, but if you are not religious, then I would choose Theodore. I also think Rupert, Edmund, Henry, Hugo, Leopold, Frederick, Vincent, Chester, Barnaby, Miles, Jude, Dexter, Sebastian, Wesley, Rhett, Tobias, Oscar and Oliver are also nice and you might like some. Daphne is definitely my fave of the two girl names, my DH and I actually really like Daphne too. Hilda seems a bit frumpy and "milk maid" to me, sorry! Daphne Hilda could always work as a combo though. What about Daphne Jane, Daphne Emmeline, Daphne Edith, Daphne Tabitha, Daphne Annabelle, Daphne Ada, Daphne Abigail, Daphne Sabrina, Daphne Freya, Daphne Guinevere, Daphne Gwendolyn, Daphne Josephine, Daphne Katherine, Daphne Lucinda, Daphne Lucille, Daphne Lorelei, Daphne Matilda, Daphne Mae, Daphne Martha, Daphne Beth, Daphne Bernice, Daphne Charlotte, Daphne Celeste, Daphne Cleo, Daphne Clara or even Daphne Rebecca.