I would say ah-LEE-dah, because my husband has a great-aunt Aleida and that's how she pronounces it. I don't mind it. I've never really actually considered it. Yeah, it's pretty good now that I think about it. :)
Aleida June would be sweet. Or how about
Aleida Quinn
Aleida Josephine
Aleida Gabrielle
Aleida Carmen
Aleida Fern
Aleida Yolande
Aleida Simone
Three boys nappin', one mama namenerdin'
To peruse my top 100ish names:
http://www.behindthename.com/pnl/82589
He is becoming greater, I am becoming less
Bits of the journey here:
http://jodifriesen.blogspot.ca/And some family cuteness here:
https://www.flickr.com/photos/41705228@N08/