This site says, of the male name
Otto: "Later
German form of
Audo or
Odo, originally a short form of various names beginning with the Germanic element aud meaning "wealth, fortune"." It also gives
Aud as a Norwegian female name, as you say, and links it to
Otto.
This makes me think that your father's name looked masculine to his parents, so he (and you) got
Aud and your aunt got a very feminised version of it: the modern-looking
Audra. I hope that helps!