Wow, I'd be unhappy with my parents if I were them. It's one thing to want a boy; it's another thing to be unaccepting of the girl you have.
The names aren't actually that bad, but forcing a masculine NN is so annoying. I would revolt and probably go my my FN and MN just to feminize it more.
What are the convulsions of a city in comparison with the insurrections of the soul?
Man is a depth still greater than the people.