I don't think
Barry's that bad. It sounds old but so does
Ira. I prefer it to
Gary (and
Larry and
Cary) and pronounce it the same as
Berry (BtN says bar-ee is also a thing, which I've never heard).
Perry is my favorite of that group of rhyming names - and it has grown on me in recent years; I didn't used to like it at all.
I don't like the sound of
Luther, and he sounds like someone's
German great-great-grandfather to me, but it doesn't seem that different stylewise from
Lowell (I remember you mentioned seeing that recently and that also seemed like someone's
German great-great grandfather to me); at least he could go by
Lu /
Louie if he wanted.
Sometimes people say they want to use
Lucifer; I guess because they think it's edgy or because it's in pop culture or because they sympathize with the rebel, and I could see a similar thing with
Judas especially if they like
Judas Priest. But also I was taught in church that
Judas was just the Greek translation of
Judah and not a singular type of name, so it's possible the person just likes the sound more (and believe the religious people around them also might understand it's an ordinary name) and would pick
Jonas over
Jonah for the same reason. It seems a little unfortunate for the kid but not in a way I care that much about; personally I feel like
Lilith and perhaps
Delilah are at least as negative but those got popular.
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