I like
Gertrude - because of personal associations but also I think the sound is nice. It's just very Germanic? :)
I didn't like
Olga until I was making combos here from someone else's list, and it seemed stately/elegant in some of them.
I used to be indifferent to
Margaret, but I've been liking it lately. It's understated but substantial and has a unique sound nowadays.
I have the impression
Sheila is stereotyped as new agey, but I'm not sure why. It mostly sounds soft and retro to me, a similar age to
Rhonda.
Amanda I like because I had a dream about it related to the meaning. But before then, I didn't like it either.
Ashley was so trendy for millennials, but...it's fine. It's easy to say and a nature name, so that's nice...
I dislike
Samantha, always have. It's the "antha" sound. And
Sam is ok, but I don't like
Sammy.
I went through a period of really disliking
Grace because it seemed so overused - it seemed like all the annoying kids I met were called
Grace or
Jack. But I think I'm getting over that recently. I didn't always hate it.
Linda used to just sound boring to me, but as soon as I met a young one, it seemed magical and lovely.
"
Dinah blow your horn" - putting that aside though (I could if I met one and had to use it), it doesn't seem terrible...although I still don't like it that much. I don't like the meaning or the bible story, and I prefer the sound of dee-nuh or die-anna.
Beulah I think is stereotyped as one of the ultimate "ugly old lady names" from the early 20th century (same group as
Bertha). I think it can be nice though that it relates to music and that in some
Christian traditions '
Beulah Land' is symbolic of heaven or bliss (although on the flipside, that could make it overly religious for some). It also reminds me of
Rita Dove's poetry book '
Thomas and
Beulah' which endears it to me a bit. There's the old radio/TV series called
Beulah, too; in the US,
Beulah and
Dinah have both gotten flak similar to
Jemima for being associated with mammy stereotypes...that doesn't stop me from liking
Jemima or to a lesser extent
Beulah, but people might hesitate to use them for that reason.
I used to dislike
Jerry and
Jeremy but now am just indifferent. I think I warmed up to the sounds in general - I like
Gerald and
Perry more now than I used to, for example.
I find
Ian,
Evelyn,
Madison, and
Martha very boring. Though I'd like
Martha slightly more pronounced the
German way.
I dislike
Dylan; theoretically, the meaning and music/poetry connection is nice, but the vibe I get from it is that he's likely a tool. And I've heard it pronounced "die-lan" which I hate. I'm not a fan of
Cooper or -er ending occupational names as a group either; they seem so bland.
Susan,
Lucy,
Benjamin,
Oliver,
Samuel,
Daniel,
Danielle,
Asher - I don't love them but can easily see the appeal, and they don't annoy me.
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