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HelpRe: Considering changing my name/ some possible overthinking
in reply to a message by helianthus
I think you are way overthinking it, and you actually may not be ready to change your name; you've gone by Edina all your life so far, so it actually is connected to you. That and Edie; you've never answered to anything else.
When people are serious about changing their names, they generally are much more sure about what they want to change to and why and they are far less worried about possible sound-alikes or initials. I mean, Edie and erectile-dysfunction/eating disorder initials and you may want to work in the medical field is quite a stretch, and tells me you're reaching, trying to give yourself a reason to not go by your own current name.
It's fine to change your name, if you are actually serious about wanting to, and you don't mind the legal ramifications of it.
You could start going by a different nn for Edina, to sound different but not have to start from scratch. How about Dina/Deena/Dena? It's short, but less "tweety" than Edie. And less related to Edith. And it's used often enough as a full name that it doesn't feel overly formal.
Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, when you criticize him, you're a mile away and you have his shoes!
Steve Martin
When people are serious about changing their names, they generally are much more sure about what they want to change to and why and they are far less worried about possible sound-alikes or initials. I mean, Edie and erectile-dysfunction/eating disorder initials and you may want to work in the medical field is quite a stretch, and tells me you're reaching, trying to give yourself a reason to not go by your own current name.
It's fine to change your name, if you are actually serious about wanting to, and you don't mind the legal ramifications of it.
You could start going by a different nn for Edina, to sound different but not have to start from scratch. How about Dina/Deena/Dena? It's short, but less "tweety" than Edie. And less related to Edith. And it's used often enough as a full name that it doesn't feel overly formal.
Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, when you criticize him, you're a mile away and you have his shoes!
Steve Martin
