And a name does not have to be feminine to be gentle. Jonathan and Noah are gentle-sounding names to me, and they are all-boy.
Sometimes I think the "gender neutral" or "non-binary" types are actually more hung up on narrow stereotypes than the general populace.
Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, when you criticize him, you're a mile away and you have his shoes!
Steve Martin