"And she didn't neccessarily just say, "I'm fourteen, so I want kids!"
Umm...but she should have atleast understood that at 14, when you have sex, you can get pregnant. I hate it when people say just because someone is young doesn't mean they didn't want to get pregnant. You shouldn't have sex unless you are mature enough to have kids because no matter how hard you try accidents happen.
Okay, I am stepping off of my soapbox now.