I think you're being oversensitive. CKE hasn't been rude, abrupt or agressive, and his comments look just fine to me. Instead of insisting that he use this or that phrasing, maybe you need to readjust your own expectations?
I know you enjoy posting "sensational" names, and no one has a problem with that, but you need to be prepared to be questioned about them given their weird nature. It's only natural on an *etymology* website for people to want to make sure that the information they're getting is accurate and verifiable.
If anyone is actually rude, let me know, but otherwise please don't keep attacking CKE for asking his questions in a professional manner.
~Chrisell~
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