You're not just comparing apples and oranges by throwing in the Trail of Tears in a discussion about dreamcatchers (which began as a discussion of popular names for American Indians), you're comparing apples and hair dryers.
And if you actually believe that just because white women didn't do actual mass killings that they are somehow incapable of perpetrating injustice or appropriating things, you don't know women very well. Even if you are one.
It's a mistake to think that women aren't as good as men. But it's a much bigger mistake to think they're any better.
Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, when you criticize him, you're a mile away and you have his shoes!
Steve Martin