I think about this name a lot, and I am back and forth on it; I can't decide if it's over-the-top or just enough. I am not sure if it's stylish or a faded Victorian relic. What is your opinion? Would you use it as a first name or only a middle name? Would you prefer never to use it as long as you live? If you have an optimal combo that you love/like that uses Lavinia, what is it?