Honestly, I don't really have anything against the name
Destiny, or the names of her siblings (though
Spencer sounds a little dry to my ear). It doesn't sound tacky to me. Really, I'm sick of hearing people bash it while blithely endorsing or ignoring pretentious names like Freya-Anais.
Edited to extend my rant, (lol):
What irks me is that people who find
Destiny tacky don't seem to have a really precise reason. It's not that they don't like any word names (in fact they might be quite fond of
River or
Iris or even something as outré as Apple or as contrived as Lily-Rose); it's not even that they don't like abstract concepts as names (there's certainly nothing tacky about
Grace, and
Verity and
Honor may pass muster as well); it's just that there's something "trashy" or "stripperish" about
Destiny, and its cousins
Genesis and
Charisma. It reeks of classism to me--because it was popular among the lower classes without ever much passing through the upper classes (more often the trend is reversed),
Destiny is endlessly and undeservedly trashed. I'm so sick of the snobbery that clobbers
Destiny so often in naming discussions.
This message was edited 8/23/2007, 6:09 AM