I like the name. I would never consider it for a hypothetical child or character, but I think it works really well for a first or middle name. It's short, and goes well with pretty much everything. I was honestly surprised that some girls are named Kai, because I've only heard of it being a boy's name, but I can't say I'm surprised. Charlie and James are also now girl's names, so I guess people are just really into this now.
Kai is truly one of the most unisex and versatile names in modern naming circles. It doesn't matter what culture you are from, or what gender your baby is, because Kai can be used for anyone.
― Anonymous User 8/3/2023
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Kai is a truly multicultural name that's also an Estonian feminine name, a Hawaiian unisex name, a modern Hebrew unisex name, a Navajo unisex name, and an English unisex or feminine name. Saying people shouldn't use them for girls is culturally insensitive and I really can't understand why some people think it's ok to do that.
Dear people, please. It is a masculine name. I don't know when you are gonna start to understand this fact. I already know some goofy people name their daughter Kai but every healthy ear can hear and catch its manly vibe.
Kai is unisex and it has always been unisex. You are looking at Kai 1, which is only one form of this name that happens to be masculine. There are 4 Kais total on this website, and clearly you didn't look at more than one before making the assumption that this is just another boys' name being used as a girls' name. Kai is also a Hawaiian name, of course making it unisex, as well as an Estonian name that is exclusively feminine. Kai is for everyone, my friend.
I think Kai is a very handsome name for a boy. I think it works fine and I like it as a middle name.Have some combos that I really love and that you are more than free to look at:Damian Kai Ashton Kai Brendan Kai Jordan Kai Jonathan Kai Zachary Kai Matthew Kai Kai Vincent Kai Matthew.
I know 2 Kais. One was a skinny boy with black hair, who is funny. One of them is a light brown haired one who is rather big and also funny. I think all Kais were made to be funny, lol.
I'm female and my name is Kai. I love it. I've never had anyone tell me any different :)
― Anonymous User 9/25/2019
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Kai always sounded masculine to me. For some reason though, it always was the main characters name in an action show like Beyblade or Pokémon, even though I don’t recall a character having that name (Though I may be wrong, haven’t rewatched either in a long time). Not a favorite, doesn’t age well and it’s ridiculous on a girl.
I'm saddened to see that this name has become more common than Kyle. I do think it is a good nickname for either a boy or girl though, whether it be a nickname for Kyle, Kylie, or Kyla.
― Anonymous User 2/12/2018
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In cantonese, the word "Kai" sometimes means dumb or crazy. It's a good name but as a cantonese I won't name my son Kai.
― Anonymous User 11/18/2017
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My 5 year old son (soon to be 6) is named Kai and I still love the name. When I chose the name I knew of no one else with the name and I chose it because of the strong meaning in many other languages. I'm sad that it has become more popular but I think it will soon go back to being an uncommon name.
My 7 month old grandson is named a Polish name, Kajetan, but we call him Kai. There is a female weather-caster in the Chicago area name Kai. She's the only other Kai I have ran across besides my grandson. We've had very good reactions to the name.
I don't think it works for an Anglo-surnamed baby. My bogan neighbour has called her toddler son this and the sound of her yelling his name in her raucous "Strine" accent and adding several four letter words to describe him when he's naughty will always be associated with this name in my mind. It seems like it will date quickly too.
― Anonymous User 3/20/2016
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This name doesn't work in New Zealand. It's Maori for food.
Kai here (male); really great name, in spite of the frequent flinches when you think someone said your name but they were just saying "hi" to someone else.
My name is Kai and it was not at all popular when I was growing up. I'm 33 and only know 2 other people my age named Kai one guy one gal. I love my name.
I also love this name but am worried about the growing popularity. I would hate for my son to get to school age and there are 5 other kids in his class with the same name. :(
I've only known one person named Kai, and although I didn't get to know him well, he was an amazing bassist and seemed to be a shy, quiet and kind type of person. This name carries good connotations for me, and I like the sound of it as well.
― Anonymous User 7/25/2015
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Are you kidding me?! This is a name?! It sounds so incredibly "modern", "kreativ", and extremely childish! I honestly can't imagine anyone with this name over the age of ten. A perfect example of how dumb parents are getting these days. Absolutely disgusting.
― Anonymous User 1/31/2013
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It should remain a nickname, a diminutive-- no more, no less. "Kai" is incredibly feminine to me, especially considering that it is a very common petname for people bearing the name "Kaitlin/Catelin/etc," not to mention as full first itself. The idea that this appears 'masculine' is gag-inducing to me... as a full given name it is weak, unprofessional, pompous, beyond childish, unintelligent, and need I say it? Ugly. It holds possibility of being labeled "kre8tiv," in English-speaking countries (especially the United States).A Kai Reed does not sound like a surgeon to me, nor does a Kai Fitzgerald in the court room. I urge prospect parents to use with discretion and caution, truly marinate the idea in your mind.
When I was in elementary school in the mid 80s I had a pen pal named Kai from Sweden and I've loved the name always since then. It is simple, strong and sweet.
My son is called Kai and I love it. However it's sad how overused it's becoming.
― Anonymous User 11/11/2009
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My personal impression of the name Kai is not static, as I have found impressions change as often as new information arrives and old information is discarded. Imagine my surprise to learn it was contained in the Greek term triskaidekaphobia, which means 'fear of the number thirteen!' As you can imagine, I don't take it all too literally. It generally means very earthy and natural sorts of things which is perfect for me as I am simply a natural human with no religious or political or social views. Kai is a perfect name for me with it's natural meanings and my own love for all life on Earth and the Earth itself, which like the name Kai can be either masculine or feminine, such as Kelly or Jessie. Thank you for considering my experiences!
Sorry so long winded, but I do spend a fair 'amount' of time as Kai. In my life, I've met more women than men with the name, and at the same time I get a more masculine impression of the name (not the women who bear it!)
The name Kai - makes me think of an intelligent, witty, handsome and cosmopolitan boy or man. It is very popular in Germany and Northern Europe. The Italian version of the name is spelled Caio (from Caius). Kai is getting more and more popular in England, Canada and Australia.
― Anonymous User 5/27/2007
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Lovely name! A strong and beautifully sounding name! It is short, clear, easy to pronounce in any language, and it has so many and only positive meanings. The name Kai is also historical. Caius, from where Kai originates, was a very common name in the Roman Empire. Famous bearers were Caius Julius Caesar, Pope Caius (283-296), etc. The name Kai could sound historic but also very modern, charming and masculine. What a smart and original name!
― Anonymous User 5/21/2007
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Don't like the name. For me it is just so out of time. In Sweden we pronounce it KAY.
I absolutely love this name, whether for a boy or girl. I first saw it on a game on the n64 called Harvest Moon, used for a boy working on a vineyard. When I saw it, I fell in love with it. Seems like an easy person to get along with, fun-loving, but still rough-around-the-edges. Imagine my delite when I realized it's the first half of my middle name, Kaitlin. I've wanted to be called Kai as a nickname of sorts, but it just never really happened. :( Really great though.