In my dictionary the name of the plant is pronounced bet-uh-nee. There's an English historian called Bettany Hughes - it's hard to tell whether her name is a version of Betony, Bethany, or Bet Annie!
Pliny descends the etymology from the Gaulish name of a Spanish tribe, the Vettones, to whom its discovery is attributed. Betony symbolizes surprise in the language of flowers, and so might make a fitting first or middle name for an unplanned but much wanted daughter.
― Anonymous User 5/28/2009
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Well, the name itself isn't bad, but the first time I saw it I though about "the one made of beton" than of a herb.
I saw this name in a book I read and I thought it was pronounced like bet-uh-nee lol (that's the best way I could put that lol). I honestly think it sounds better. But I like it either way. :]