This is an excellent point. I too think that
Jemima is a lovely name and would like to see it reclaimed, but as a white person it is simply not my place to do the reclaiming.
But I would also not see it as hateful if I did see it used by a white or non-African American family. Maybe ignorant, but not hateful.
It's interesting that
Jemima is so problematic but
Benjamin (Uncle
Ben) is not. I wonder why?