I strongly dislike Anthony/Antony/Tony related names,
Antoinette is the single exception (I also dislike
Antonia). Maybe because I've never met an Anthony/Tony I liked.
Tony in particular comes off as a slimy guy.
Nettie is an adorable nickname! I think
Antoinette makes a great and interesting middle name. I haven't made any combos for this name in ages, but you've inspired me to play around with it too.