[Opinions] To clarify
in reply to a message by queenv
I didn't say to my brother and sister-in-law, and wouldn't say to anybody else, that it's stupid, that it drives me nuts, that they should know better, or anything else like that. I just stated a fact. That's all that I would do. Politely. If the person didn't know beforehand, he or she now knows. If they did know and didn't care, and inferred from what I said that it's dumb or annoying to me, that's fine with me. But it would be mainly to impart knowledge.