I prefer
Lilian or
Lily, but I like that
Lilias is more uncommon. I might use it, if I had any Scottish roots.
"You sought a flower and found a fruit. You sought a spring and found a sea. You sought a woman and found a soul. You are disappointed."
"It does not become me to make myself smaller than I am." (
Edith Södergran 1891-1923)