Eliminate my family member (and me) on my mums side of the family. Take one from the girls/women list and one from the boys/men list.
(btw: IE is pronounced as EE ; IJ is pronounced as IE ; EE is pronounced as AY)
girls/women:
Ageeth
Aniek
AnnekeArwenEllyJolien
Jopie
Lidwien
Marca
MarjoMarjolijnWendyWilma
boys/men:
BertBobFlipFransHenny
JorisJosKeesOlivierStijnTiest