I wonder if the person who told you your name might be "gorian" happens to be a fan (oy vey...) of the notorious John Norman's Gor novels? John Norman (not his real name) is a casual acquaintance of mine, and there is a character named "Telena" who figures prominently in his novels -- the daughter of the chief warlord of Gor. But this Telena's name is spelled differently from your own name of "Telina".
Well, Telina, if you should happen to be on Long Island March 30th through April 1st of this year, you could always come to I-Con and ask Dr. Norman, youself. He's an annual guest at that con:
http://www.iconsf.org/
-- Nanaea