Re: Valentin (with transgender intent)
in reply to a message by Confused and concerned
If it's pronounced Vallen-Teen like most Americans would say it, it's fine.
It'd have a pseud-y feel, imo, as the name of an American who talks like an American. I'd suspect it was a self-name.
But you need not mind that necessarily, esp since you say you are looking for a name with swag.
Valentin formally or on paper, Val to friends, seems like it would do the trick.
It's timed right. I bet nobody would think it seemed mundane or ugly.
Or even difficult. Valentin "Vallen-teen" is actually easier for me to say than Amelie.
However, if someone is apparently an American and talks like one, and lives where fluent French speakers are infrequent and come from elsewhere - but introduces himself to other Americans as Valentin-pronounced-in-French (or attempting the French prn), and insists on that pronunciation ... I would feel like, 'Please just stop.' I might start just calling him Lestat instead. I can approximate French Amelie okay-enough, but Valentin would be next level, I'd need lessons.
- mirfak
It'd have a pseud-y feel, imo, as the name of an American who talks like an American. I'd suspect it was a self-name.
But you need not mind that necessarily, esp since you say you are looking for a name with swag.
Valentin formally or on paper, Val to friends, seems like it would do the trick.
It's timed right. I bet nobody would think it seemed mundane or ugly.
Or even difficult. Valentin "Vallen-teen" is actually easier for me to say than Amelie.
However, if someone is apparently an American and talks like one, and lives where fluent French speakers are infrequent and come from elsewhere - but introduces himself to other Americans as Valentin-pronounced-in-French (or attempting the French prn), and insists on that pronunciation ... I would feel like, 'Please just stop.' I might start just calling him Lestat instead. I can approximate French Amelie okay-enough, but Valentin would be next level, I'd need lessons.
- mirfak
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See this is what I worry about! I figure it's not too much worse than my name is currently, I have to tell people how to pronounce my name all the time and that's just because my parents were huge nerds. I don't intend to be a dick about the pronunciation anyway. I feel like if I met someone who were to insist on full French pronunciation accent and everything I'd think they were insane too