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Re: Valentin (with transgender intent)
If it's pronounced Vallen-Teen like most Americans would say it, it's fine.
It'd have a pseud-y feel, imo, as the name of an American who talks like an American. I'd suspect it was a self-name.
But you need not mind that necessarily, esp since you say you are looking for a name with swag.
Valentin formally or on paper, Val to friends, seems like it would do the trick.
It's timed right. I bet nobody would think it seemed mundane or ugly.
Or even difficult. Valentin "Vallen-teen" is actually easier for me to say than Amelie.However, if someone is apparently an American and talks like one, and lives where fluent French speakers are infrequent and come from elsewhere - but introduces himself to other Americans as Valentin-pronounced-in-French (or attempting the French prn), and insists on that pronunciation ... I would feel like, 'Please just stop.' I might start just calling him Lestat instead. I can approximate French Amelie okay-enough, but Valentin would be next level, I'd need lessons.- mirfak
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See this is what I worry about! I figure it's not too much worse than my name is currently, I have to tell people how to pronounce my name all the time and that's just because my parents were huge nerds. I don't intend to be a dick about the pronunciation anyway. I feel like if I met someone who were to insist on full French pronunciation accent and everything I'd think they were insane too
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