this is not ending drama ...
Trying to dredge up past incidents (which a new user supposedly wouldn't be aware of) by asking why so-and-so no longer posts or why so-and-so's comments were so negative is stirring up drama, not ending it. We've heard this song before ...
Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, when you criticize him, you're a mile away and you have his shoes!
Steve Martin