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Selah for a boy?
So I've seen the name Selah ("SEE-lah") floating around recently and I was pretty surprised to learn that it was a girl's name. I used to watch this show called Turn, and there was a guy named Selah on it. Granted, the show is set in colonial America, so maybe the name switched from a boy's name to a girl's name in the last 200 years, but I don't know. I've always thought it was a nice name for a boy. I guess it sounds pretty on a girl, though. Thoughts?
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I've seen it on males, but always pronounced "se-LAH"I adore Sela on a girl so I have a hard time seeing it on a boy. Especially because it's so similar in sound/style to many other fem names
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I don't like gender switching names, so not a fan. But Saleh for a boy is nice and actually a boy name.

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Selah for a boy?I like it - ending with an "a" sonority--and the letter "h" just adds that subtle, breathy continuance. I guess the "ah" ending preceded by the long "e" vowel might soften the name from the more common (perhaps previously more common) names like John, Mark, William, Paul, or Luke. I see no reason that a boy should not be Selah - or a girl. I would not thank that Selah would naturally suggest need for a shorter version, as Michael shortens to Mike & Suzanne, Suzette, & Susan shorten to Sue.
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I only know it as a Hebrew word that appears at the ends of some psalms and is interpreted as either a sign that the music stops or a word, a bit like 'Amen", that signals the end and also somewhat means 'So be it' or "let it be'. With that meaning, old-fashioned Afrikaans speakers sometimes use it in ordinary discourse, but their intonation suggests that they would like the particular outcome but have no great hopes of ever experiencing it!So, not a name at all in my mind.
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YES!I love it! It means "pause and reflect" and was used in music to allow the singer and/or listener to pause and consider the lyrics.I kind of love that. And it sounds/looks awesome for a boy.
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It reminds me of Salah or Saleh, both of which I prefer over Selah. Because of this connotation, (Salah and Saleh are masculine names), I prefer it as a masculine name rather than feminine.
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I love the name Selah and generally prefer it on a boy, though I'd consider it unisex.
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I doubt a TV show set in Colonial America was going for Arabic Saleh. But I see nothing gendered about "pause and reflect". Many male names end in the "a", especially Hebrew/biblical. Ezra, Micah, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Uriah, Asa, Ira, etc. Selah on a boy is perfectly nice.
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I'm guessing this reply wasn't actually for me, but either way Selah Strong (the character op referenced), Anna Strong's husband, was very much a real person so I'd imagine they just named the character what his actual name was within history. I'd assume the real Selah's parents named him that as a biblical reference.
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I think it could work for a boy. This strict gendering of names really doesn’t make too much sense to me, anyway. Names are just names.
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I don't see why not, actually. It's not like it was a name in the bible, it's a musical term that happened to appear in Psalms. I read a book with a male Zillah which is similar in sound. And the possible meanings are all nice and not particularly feminine (the actual meaning is not exactly known: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selah). I'd pick a more masculine middle name though.
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