My grandson is named
James Thaddeus! The plan was to call him by his middle name, and his paternal grandparents call him
Thad.
I love both
James and
Thaddeus, but
James is a tad boring from overuse. At any rate, I wouldn't use a name that makes me wince inside.
Thaddeus is beyond cool. There was
Thaddeus Stevens, who was badass. I hope your boyfriend changes his mind.