Re: Jennifer
in reply to a message by Lily
I had a really vivid dream a month or so ago about having a baby and naming her Jennifer. She was wrapped in a cream and blue blanket with "Jennie" embroidered on it. A good chunk of my dream was me thinking how pretty Jennifer is and how well it suited the baby. I think it's a beautiful name. I like its nicknames, too.
I'm a child of the 70s, so I'm sure I've known a convention's worth of Jennifers in my life. At three different times, across three different states, I had three different best friends all named Jennifer Lynn. When I was in elementary, I had one grade where, out of 13 girls in the class, 8 of them were named Jennifer. It is the girl name of my generation. I think I've only met one Jennifer born after 1990--she was born in 1993, and named after a 70s-born Jennifer who died in an accident.
I don't know that I've ever met a Jennifer who has gone exclusively by her full name, at least not once you get to know her. Every one I've known has used a combination of Jennifer and Jen (Jenny/Jennie, usually, when young). I'm not much of a nickname person, but I actually like Jen. I think it has the same sort of vibe as Kate--strong, not babyish.
It would be a great middle name, and that probably is the best place to put it if you can't stand Jen, but I love it as a first name. Jennifer is one of a number of 60s/70s/80s names, like Amy, Melissa, Christine, and Jessica, that I know are pretty dated, but I would use anyway.
I'm a child of the 70s, so I'm sure I've known a convention's worth of Jennifers in my life. At three different times, across three different states, I had three different best friends all named Jennifer Lynn. When I was in elementary, I had one grade where, out of 13 girls in the class, 8 of them were named Jennifer. It is the girl name of my generation. I think I've only met one Jennifer born after 1990--she was born in 1993, and named after a 70s-born Jennifer who died in an accident.
I don't know that I've ever met a Jennifer who has gone exclusively by her full name, at least not once you get to know her. Every one I've known has used a combination of Jennifer and Jen (Jenny/Jennie, usually, when young). I'm not much of a nickname person, but I actually like Jen. I think it has the same sort of vibe as Kate--strong, not babyish.
It would be a great middle name, and that probably is the best place to put it if you can't stand Jen, but I love it as a first name. Jennifer is one of a number of 60s/70s/80s names, like Amy, Melissa, Christine, and Jessica, that I know are pretty dated, but I would use anyway.
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I can't stand 70s/80s names like Melissa, Christine and Jessica. They make me shudder. They are so bland to me from being ubiquitous that they aren't really even names to me anymore.
It wasn't until a few years ago, when an ex-co-worker of mine used Melissa and I realized it was the first time I had met a baby Melissa in over 15 years, that I started to like the common names I grew up with. Once 70s/80s names were separated from hordes of their own kind, I could finally see how attractive they are.