That's true, and sometimes I don't even think I like a name until I hear it on a real person and then it can change my mind. That happened with
Crispin not too long ago.
Sedemaiden is from Old English Sidumægden or Seodumægden. Sidu = "custom, manner", mægden = "maiden," according to my findings.
I think
Paloma Dulcie can work.
Paloma is strong and not too sweet, so she can take it. Although I'm not so sure it's dulce de leche as much as a bird stuck in syrup. Ha... hmmm.