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in reply to a message by Jen Demars
Francesca enjoyed a vogue in England for a while, and I've never heard it shortened to Fran. That shouldn't be a major worry imo, and the name is beautiful.
There are *some* names with almost-definite nicknames. Every Christopher I know is Chris; every Benjamin is Ben. But Francesca is not a name with a set nickname; it's not popular enough for that.
Besides, most people are polite and will not shorten a name without asking. I know I wouldn't. But I have had bad experiences. Many people call me Elle which I like, or Elly which I tolerate. One aunt tried to call me Nell, once, and I flipped! Ugh. So I understand your fear, but if the child doesn't want to be Fran, she never will be. Ultimately it's her choice.
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There are *some* names with almost-definite nicknames. Every Christopher I know is Chris; every Benjamin is Ben. But Francesca is not a name with a set nickname; it's not popular enough for that.
Besides, most people are polite and will not shorten a name without asking. I know I wouldn't. But I have had bad experiences. Many people call me Elle which I like, or Elly which I tolerate. One aunt tried to call me Nell, once, and I flipped! Ugh. So I understand your fear, but if the child doesn't want to be Fran, she never will be. Ultimately it's her choice.
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♥Elinor♥
"Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so."
~ Douglas Adams
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