well, its quite simple. My fiance doesn't really like
Romulus so much, though he prefers it to another favorite of mine
Remus.
Theodore and
Caspian wouldn't be realistic because
Ignatius is our favorite and it has been for almost 2 years.
And does it really matter how you spell a nick name? Im
Rebecca, and does Beck, Bek, Bec etc. look any different? I happen to like nicknames that actually come from the name. so even though I like the look of
Cass more than Cas, it makes more sense.