It IS just a name! It is a sound that we are trained to respond to from a young age. If, from infancy, someone used the sound "Urgh" to get your attention, then that is what you would be trained to respond to.
The true origins of names have become so cloudy that it is difficult to tell WHERE a name comes from or WHAT the true meaning of it is.
Why not name your child something that you find pleasing? I would rather name my daughter
Logan because I absolutely love the name (and it fits her extraordinarily well by the way) than
Mary simply because it has more history of being a "girl's name".
To you there is a sold black line that is thick and strong and totally differentiates between girls and boys. I simply prefer to not limit myself or my children. If it were THAT important, it would have been the 11th Commandment "Thou shall not give your child a name that others will disapprove of" pffff
xoxo
Michelle