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Explanation why I wonder if Desmond is too feminine...

I went to college with a girl whose name is Desmond Renee, and it doesn't seem out of place or manly. When I mentioned Desmond to my cousin, she said she thought it was girly, especially with the nn Dezi.. (She knows the same girl I do, though...)As for the NNs Dez, Des, Dezi od Desi....they somewhat remind me of the NNs for Desiree...Also, you have to admit that Desmond has a very "soft" sound to it. I think it's a very pretty name, and that adjective alone lends itself to the feminine side of things. I love the name; I just want to assess all aspects of it, including potential playground teasing if others think of it as "girly".
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I have a boyish name, and yet no one would ever say my name is very feminine, yet it suits me, if you undetstand what I'm saying...but I don't think many people would associate Desmond with being feminine, just as there are boys and girls called names like Jordan. Dezi is just as feminine as Eli, which is a commonly used boys name IMO
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