Good perspective!
My children will unfortunately never know my Dad but he and I were extremely close and I do share stories, pictures, etc. So, the memories are alive but a potential son named
Peter would never have his own memories.
I think you have told me the story of the
Rory you know and his dislike of the name. My husband's family lives in Northern England and Scotland so the name
Rory is way more familiar. Also, my brother in law has an accent in his name so that is normal for them. My family would fins
Rory totally normal but the accents would likely be forgotten at times.