I totally agree with you about
Valentine, and I think it'd be completely reasonable and possible for a guy
Valentine to go by
Val literally all of the time, just like Elizabeths go by
Liz and Alexanders go by
Alex - and it would not sound pretentious when his full name was revealed. It'd be awesome. But I do feel your concern about people's association with the holiday. And I get irritated about
Valentine being seen as feminine. As a feminine name it does sorta remind me of the holiday, and seems too precious.
I also totally agree with you about
Valentina and
Tina. I hate
Tina. I'd rather use
Valentine for a guy, than
Valentina for a girl, for the same reasons you give. But I think
Val or
Vale (Val-eh / Val-uh) or
Vali would be great nicknames, and I think
Tina could be avoided. There are tons of Victorias who go by
Tori and never
Vicki, and vice-versa, so it doesn't seem like it'd be that hard.
- mirfakThis message was edited 12/2/2020, 11:37 AM