The pronunciation of
Bernard depends on where you live. I think (and she can correct me if I'm wrong) Bex lives in Australia. They tend to follow
UK pronunciations (or is it the other way around, Bex?). So "Ber-Nard" might not be accurate for them.
Personally, I prefer the French / U.S. way, with the stress on the second syllable. I think you and I are saying it the same way. It's one of the few times I dislike a
UK pronunciation. (How do the Canadians say it, anyone? Just curious.)