Thank you for the mostly encouraging response. I was a bit nervous that I would get a lot of "no it's too girly" responses even though I would have had to disagree. Although I prefer the
Carey spelling written down I am leaning a bit more towards
Kerry based on the responses. I can see a lot of potential for
Carey to be confused with CARE-ee or
Carrie, and
Kerry seems to be easier for most people to relate the way it is said to the way it is spelled.