Ninety-five percent of the time, I don't read other responses before I make my own. This is because I don't want to be influenced by others' opinions before I state my own. The only times I haven't done this is when I initially had decided I wasn't going to respond to a post, but then changed my mind.
I tell you this so you know that I made my post before I read yours. Since I twice stated in my post that
Hazel is ugly in a charming way, and then read your response "it's not charming-ugly, it's just ugly", I wanted you to know that I didn't say what I did to specifically disagree with you. It's coincidence that we chose the same words in stating opposite opinions.