Growing up I considered my name to be a) too common and b) misspelled (
Jamie is how everyone I knew spelled it, or
Jayme). As an adult (well, almost 20 year old) I've met several girls named
Jaime. I like my first name a lot now, but I still don't like the popularity. It's not nearly as bad as if I was called
Amanda or
Katie, though. I've never had anyone tell me that
Jaime or
Jamie are boy names. Most people pronounce it easily, even if it's often spelled
Jamie. On the whole, it's not bad at all. On a little girl, I think
Jaime or
Jamie would be ok because it's not dated IMO, but it's not like
Ava or
Madison for this generation. I think I prefer
Jamie, only because that is still most common and the spelling
Jaime is sometimes pronounced HIE-may, and thought to be Spanish.
So...to get to the point--I like my name, prefer the spelling
Jamie, and think your potential daughter could do much worse in the name game.