If I were you, I'd definitely push for
Serafina! Let him have
Arthur.
Dante would make a handsome name for another son. ;-) I can't imagine it on a female at all due to its sheer masculinity.
Re: the spelling, I do prefer
Serafina to
Seraphina due to personal aesthetics, however, it would ultimately depend on the surname for me. For you, go with the spelling you prefer. I do think
Sera is nice but not very special because of its similarity to
Sara. You've got this gorgeous, exotic name,
Serafina. Don't waste it on
Sera! I like Fee / Fi,
Fina and even Seri (although it may be misunderstood as
Sara).
I think
Serafina and
Dante go very well together. Likewise, I'd rather see
Seraphina in the same sibset with
Arthur. Again, it's up to you. Life's too short to worry about what others think. BTW, I love
Ciaran and
Ciara.
Love them. I just can't get on board with variant spellings. Call me a name snob, call me a purist, but I just think variant spellings detract from the integrity of a name.
This message was edited 9/4/2012, 6:30 PM