I don't think I have seen this name mentioned often, both in real life as well as on BtN. Given the love that names like
Edmund (for men) and
Rosamund (for women) receive around here - even the more obscure
Faramund recently - I wonder why a similar name like
Desmond apparently hasn't.
How do you feel about
Desmond, both for a child and a grown man? Do you have any positive or negative associations with it? Would you prefer it spelled Desmund instead?
As for me, I have grown rather fond of
Desmond over the years. When I was younger, I used to think it was a so-so name that didn't really stand out and seemed to be a name most seen on men in their 50s-60s, but thanks to the character
Desmond Hume from "Lost", I slowly began to see the charm of it. I think it's a really affable name now, with the nickname
Des being rather cute.
Desmond is better than
Edmund in that regard - since the obvious nickname for
Desmond (
Des) is infinitely better than the obvious nickname for
Edmund (
Ed or worse,
Eddie). At least, in my opinion. ;)
I don't think I would ever actually use
Desmond (not as a first name, at least), since in my country, English names tend to get mangled quickly (making them often seem a bit trashy also) and so it's safer to instead opt for something that's a little bit closer to home. It's a shame, but at least I'll always have the middle name spot as an option. :)
Anyway, I'm curious to hear your thoughts regarding
Desmond. :)