Do the spellings give you different impressions? Which do you prefer?
I love the sound of
Philomena and I think it sounds great with our last name, and with most of the other names I like. I dated a
Phillip though, and in the end he turned out to be not a nice person. The sound doesn't remind me of him but the Ph- spelling does.
Would you use the F- spelling in that case or just strike it from the list? Would it be misspelled? I don't know if most people know how to spell Ph/Filomena in the first place anyway.