Agnes is one of those what I call, "retro-hip" names, that is making a comeback. But not every old name deserves a comeback, and, in my opinion,
Agnes, along with
Gladys is one of those names that should stay in the past.
These names are like
Abigail.
My reason for disliking them is that I personally find them unattractive to the ear. And that's it. There's no in-depth analysis for why I hate
Abigail,
Agnes, and
Gladys, I just find them plain ugly sounding.
So I guess I'm no help in helping you like the name. There are other "retro-hip" names I currently like, but I'm not sure if I'll like them long-term, therefore I'm hesitant to use them on a real kid:
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If I were you, I would ask myself, "
Will I like this name down the road or will I have buyer's remorse?" That can be a difficult question to answer. But if you a confident you will like
Agnes long-term, then I say go for it, regardless of my opinion.