I think of the cookie and of the surname (as in actress
Alyssa Milano, like Zuzu said). It isn't at all masculine toned, and I don't think it feels like a name.
With a second name, do you mean a second-first name or a middle name? Either way, I suggest Milano
James Henry (two-first names, Milano and
James) and Milano
Patrick (
Patrick being the middle name).
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