your oldest is now in Kindergarten .. choose what grade period and tell your family and friends how proud or not so proud you are of him or her or them.
You are also a stay at home mom with the new addition of either birth of twins or adoption(if you adopted they have to be from another country with name from that country).
You are also just getting through a rough patch in life(ie...loss of job, car accident, death in family or so forth)