I attended school with a girl named Jeri (or Jerri) back around 1970. The name was very unique for that time period and I personally thought it was cool and very modern. There were always a few who poked fun at her for having a "guy's" name but she ignored their childish rants.
I have a hard time picturing a male Jerry that shouldn't be punched in the face. That's basically the reason I think you should refrain from naming your poor daughter Jerri. Come on, she hasn't done anything wrong. Don't punish her until she deserves it.