My favorite girl's name ever! While pregnant, I did debate between Carissa, Clarissa, & also Charis. When I finally had my daughter I had 2 first names picked out, waiting until after I met her to decide. She is definitely a Carissa - beloved & dear one.
Out of the few Carissas (and variant spellings) I've met, one is so abusive and hurtful to those around her that every time I meet someone with this name (regardless of spelling) I tend not to like them because of her.*sorry to all of you who bear this name, I am positive you are all very nice people - it's just how I feel at the moment.