I like them about the same, but
Alden would feel more like it's my style (for some reason my family just doesn't really do Biblical/Hebrew-origin names) so for a son of my own I'd lean
Alden.
I might (!?) rather see my kid date a
David than an
Alden though, lol.
David has avid in it (I'm weird, I notice these things, but the name seems slightly ... avid to me, like a driven ambitious person - that could be good or bad or neutral), and seems traditional and smart. I think nickname
Dave is nice - generic these days, which I'm neutral about, and friendlier than
David.
Alden sounds more modern preppyish, like the kind of name that basically traditional parents give a first child when they are really excited and feel like traditional names might be boring. I don't love surnames as firstnames - they seem sort of aspirational, like want-to-sound as if they have the surname in their family, esp when it's an English surname - but
Alden doesn't come off totally surnamey.
I met an
Alden once, my son's age (now teenaged). His little brother was named
Charles (
Charlie). They didn't call him
Al, but it's a potential thing that could happen - I dunno, it might actually be cool.
If I were wrangling between
David and
Alden, I'd consider
Dean instead of either.
- mirfakThis message was edited 4/18/2024, 9:41 PM