New Post
Search
HelpParents who wants boys do this all the time
in reply to a message by Lissa Hannah
And no one really bats an eyelash. I dislike anyone who does it, though. Its too bad in America girls with boys names are accepted, while boys with girls names are thought to be "wimpy"
Siri
Siri
Archived Thread - replies disabled
1
Replies
Well, maybe they would give an eyelash if they had a daughter named John or Robert or something else like that, but you're right, for the most part, the threshold with girl's names on boys is lower than the reverse. Which is one of the things that I campaign to change on these boards!
This message was edited 12/3/2004, 3:21 AM
1
Ever hear of Shirley?
In Charlotte Brontë's 1849 novel Shirley, the eponymous heroine is named Shirley because her parents had wanted a boy and had planned to name him Shirley. When they had a girl, she was named Shirley anyway. Back then, Shirley was considered to be very masculine, something like Connor is today.
Obviously missing the point, parents began calling their daughters Shirley after the novel was released, including Shirley Temple's mother and father.
Miranda
In Charlotte Brontë's 1849 novel Shirley, the eponymous heroine is named Shirley because her parents had wanted a boy and had planned to name him Shirley. When they had a girl, she was named Shirley anyway. Back then, Shirley was considered to be very masculine, something like Connor is today.
Obviously missing the point, parents began calling their daughters Shirley after the novel was released, including Shirley Temple's mother and father.
Miranda
1
Yes, maybe what I'm asking is confusing...
Yes, I have, but maybe the way I'm posting my question is confusing. What I mean is, do parents choose the feminine spelling (like Gabrielle) over the masculine spelling (like Gabriel) often? I don't mean a feminine name, I mean the feminine spelling. Hopefully, that makes sense.
Yes, I have, but maybe the way I'm posting my question is confusing. What I mean is, do parents choose the feminine spelling (like Gabrielle) over the masculine spelling (like Gabriel) often? I don't mean a feminine name, I mean the feminine spelling. Hopefully, that makes sense.
This message was edited 12/2/2004, 7:15 PM
1
Yes, that makes sense :-)
No, I don't think it happens frequently. Sometimes you see Leigh or Sydney on a boy, but I suppose that doesn't really count in this case. Neither do Daniele or, indeed, Gabriele, which are legitimate male spellings.
I wonder what the mother would've thought of Gabriel being pronounced exactly like Gabrielle in French...
Miranda
No, I don't think it happens frequently. Sometimes you see Leigh or Sydney on a boy, but I suppose that doesn't really count in this case. Neither do Daniele or, indeed, Gabriele, which are legitimate male spellings.
I wonder what the mother would've thought of Gabriel being pronounced exactly like Gabrielle in French...
Miranda
1
OK, I'm glad that made sense. :)
She probably would not have cared, sadly. She was moaning and griping that she would have to raise a boy. She already is complaining, and I find that extremely sad.
She probably would not have cared, sadly. She was moaning and griping that she would have to raise a boy. She already is complaining, and I find that extremely sad.
1
Poor boy. :-(
a
a
1